Britta's theories and philosophies

HOW THINGS RUN
my last theory is slightly copy-cat of buddhism and probably a whole range of other religions too,
ok, you know that song by alicia keys 'karma'? the lyrics go:

''Cause what goes around, comes around.
What goes up, must come down.''

well, I think that no one need be punished, for if something is done wrong, in time their due pay will come back naturally to teach them a lesson. similarly if something is done right, in time their due reward will come back naturally.
here I connect this to science, newton's third law of motion:
3.To every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.
no matter How hard anybody tries, whatEver they do, will have an equal and opposite reaction somewhere in the world. this includes absolutely everything and anything. ok I'm not sure about thoughts....
so alicia keys is one smart cookie, she hit the nail right on the head.

SILLY IDEA
my next crazy theory is about religion. ok this isn't entirely serious its just a random idea that i'm putting up here:
ok what would you say to the idea that,

christendoms god is still a teenager
his mother is the earth
his popular cousins go by the name
buddha
allah
vishnu
YHWH (judaism)
.....this is why the world has so many problems
because the gods have not grown up yet
and mother earth is losing control

ok and the whole big bang theory? well
that was back when the gods were messing around with
nuclear weapons nd other such WMDs. :) WWII style. :P

please take no serious offence from this. it is just a silly idea.

PROBLEMS. (also morality in general)
people experience them.
grieve them.....meaning they get upset about them feel sorry for themselves, we even compete about who has the worst problems. i see it everywhere.
the next step is the worst. they then pass on the problem they experienced to another person, they transfer the problem from themselves to another person. i.e. yelling, crying, paying someone out, isolating themselves and then cracking the shits, yelling at another person is the most common.
to combat this i always try to pass on the opposite of a problem, a compliment :) even if someone's passed on their problem to me. either that or explain the person's anger to the person on the receiving end.
so, problems are circulated in never ending circles within our society, endlessly. from mother to daughter, from daughter to friend, from friend to brother, from brother to sister, from sister to father,from father to cousin, from cousin to grandparent, from grandparent to nephew, from nephew to friend, from friend to teacher, from teacher to student. from student to baby sibling. it is everywhere and it drives me crazy.

leading on from this, when people get angry....or experience problems of many different kinds they....bottle themselves up. they wait until their emotions have built up to such a pressure that they can't handle it any more and they literally fly off the handle. :) excuse the dodgy pun.
this is why its vitally important to release this pressure from time to time. for me its a physical pain that I just need to get rid of. I sing and walk it away, especially after a particularly bad day. if I don't take the time out to do this every now and again....I....explode either hysterically or violently, although in a non-physicallly violent way because I'm completely against that no matter what. my art teacher once told mem or rather reacted to a comment I made that 'oh i hardly ever cry, maybe once every 2-3 years.' she told me quite accurately 'what!?!?! you never cry?! but its unhealthy not to cry!'

a different way out? ask questions. they're my lifeline i swear!! it might just be something simple like 'how are you?' or 'what do you mean?' or even saying exactly what you mean, like 'wait a second i didn't mean it like that' or 'i'm sorry.' or simply just having the patience to allow someone to deliberate and sort themselves out. it can make such a massive difference! and its so important and so annoyingly overlooked, by so many people including myself so often!!! sincerity and integrity are important.
spreading real love as often as you can, is vital.
so, back to the questions. when you come across anything ever, ask all the questions you want until you've found out everything you could possibly want to know because in the end the person asking the questions will have far more background knowledge than the person too afraid to speak up.

sheesh this is all way too corny for me. its giving me the shivers even, cliches do that to me :) so, for a change...do something UTTERLY crazy, and you may just be surprized by the final result of your action.you never know. ok this is still corny but oh well. i seem to be on a corny roll :) neways
dare to take a chance, dare to take a stand or have an opinion!!! dare to agree with the teacher or the parent, when everyone around you disagrees. simply, just dare to do it.

most importantly, lol I swear I should becoome a motivational speaker, I'm suitably annoying enough to be one :) neways, most importantly never ever ever think that you can't do something. nothing, and i mean nothing (unless its a blackhole in space or to do with money), is impossible under the weight of the power of the people. you just need to learn how to use your power, because everyone has it. you just need to learn how to use it. I think it lives most strongly within Africans, and that's why I find all Africans so inspiring. :D if you feel you aren't strong enough to do this on your own, there's Always someone to help and a way to get out of it.

the most important thing of all? time. don't waste it on things that you know will always be there, like your computer or the tv. spend your time carefully on things that you know for sure won't last forever. spend it so you have no regrets because humans die, its a fact. and if you wanna waste your life well then that's your problem. I advise, to slow down, take a real look around and really appreciate everything that's around you, that's allowing you to live the way you do. we are so lucky and that fact is so overlooked and so underappreciated.

oh yeah, and we all make mistakes, i mean we're not robots come on!
don't mope around stewing over a problem, get up and forgive someone.
have the guts. because after you've done that you'll feel a WHOLE lot better about it!